Wednesday, 6 May 2015

ANAL SEX- SEXUAL FETISH IN GENERAL




Some people would say that the basic necessities of life are sex, food and water. Yes, SEX! That said, it is not surprising that more and more people are coming up with different fetishes to spice up their sexual lives. Why is this the case? Here is my theory;

We human beings love getting involved in different forms of life games- Men love the chase, women tend to fall for men who do not appreciate them, men likewise seem to prefer women that do not give them too much attention. It is all some form of game! Sex is so easy to come by these days, and we know that easy gets are boring! And so naturally, people would desire something more adventurous, which would lead to different experiments.

Focusing on the anal sex fetish asides from other fetishes, Is there such a thing as sexual perversion in marriage? Is a demand for anal sex, good enough reason to leave a marriage? As much as we'd reject the CURSE from being our portion, we do have to face the fact that, sexual perversion seems to have come to stay!

I have always preached that in marriage, a woman's body isn't hers any more but her spouse's- likewise for the man. So as a lady who isn't into kinky sex, what would you do should your husband's demand for anal sex become overwhelming???

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2 comments:

  1. Compromise, middle ground or whatchamaycallit! That's the diplomatic way out of this marital quagmire. At least, that's the way I see it.

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  2. Hmmmm.... This is a dicey one. I think the woman had better learn to COMPROMISE! If hubby wants it, hubby gets it! Or else he might go look for it outside. To be honest, the dude might still entertain women outside whether his wife gives it or not, but at least she can say she NEVER starved him in anyway (sexually at least).
    The compromise should come from both sides; hubby NEEDS to understand that wifey doesn't like it, but will do it to please him (compromise). Hubby also needs to understand that he NEEDS to gently introduce wifey to the experience by making it worthwhile and enjoyable for her (compromise) rather than getting carried away satisfying just his own desire(s).

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